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		<title>Reader Mailbag: Secret Santa</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Nov 2010 18:20:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Robert Wilkinson</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[What&#8217;s inside?  Here are the questions answered in today&#8217;s reader mailbag, boiled down to five word summaries.  Click on the number to jump straight down to the question.
1. Basic credit questions
2. How to make money blogging?
3. Favorite podcasts
4. Television compromise
5. Connecting with teens cheaply
6. Overly long &#8220;to-do&#8221; list
7. Maximizing credit card promos
8. Refinance or not?
9. Quibids?
10. Plant-based snacks
This year, I&#8217;ve found myself in two different Secret Santa exchanges.  
When I was younger, I used to worry way too much about what I was receiving.  I didn&#8217;t want to participate&#8230; <a href="http://www.walkwithmoney.com/reader-mailbag-secret-santa/" class="read_more">Read the whole article...</a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>What&#8217;s inside?</strong>  Here are the questions answered in today&#8217;s reader mailbag, boiled down to five word summaries.  Click on the number to jump straight down to the question.<br />
<a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thesimpledollar.com#11118">1.</a> Basic credit questions<br />
<a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thesimpledollar.com#21118">2.</a> How to make money blogging?<br />
<a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thesimpledollar.com#31118">3.</a> Favorite podcasts<br />
<a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thesimpledollar.com#41118">4.</a> Television compromise<br />
<a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thesimpledollar.com#51118">5.</a> Connecting with teens cheaply<br />
<a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thesimpledollar.com#61118">6.</a> Overly long &#8220;to-do&#8221; list<br />
<a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thesimpledollar.com#71118">7.</a> Maximizing credit card promos<br />
<a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thesimpledollar.com#81118">8.</a> Refinance or not?<br />
<a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thesimpledollar.com#91118">9.</a> Quibids?<br />
<a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thesimpledollar.com#101118">10.</a> Plant-based snacks</p>
<p>This year, I&#8217;ve found myself in two different Secret Santa exchanges.  </p>
<p>When I was younger, I used to worry way too much about what I was receiving.  I didn&#8217;t want to participate in such exchanges because I didn&#8217;t want to receive something awful while putting effort into giving something nice.</p>
<p>Now, I barely care what I receive.  It&#8217;s all about making sure the recipient gets something worthwhile and enjoyable that puts a smile on their face.</p>
<p>Oh, how perspectives change.</p>
<p><strong><span><a name="11118"></a>Q1: Basic credit questions</span><br />
I&#8217;m a 23 year old University student. I&#8217;ve had a credit card since I was 18 (which I just recently &#8211; and finally &#8211; paid off), and I have a student line of credit with at $12000+ balance. Furthermore, two years ago I took out a loan from my credit union to buy a car which is also paid off. My question is, how do I know what my credit score is and if it&#8217;s good or bad? Also, what&#8217;s the best way to actually build a good credit score? I was always told I could but something with my credit card (perhaps a CD or something, nothing more than $50), then pay it off right away rather than make minimum payments which just costs more interest. Is this true?</strong><br />
- Tyler</p>
<p>You can&#8217;t know your exact credit score without buying it from one of the credit agencies.  They all offer programs where you can pay them some small fee to peek at your calculated credit score.</p>
<p>Of course, your credit score is based on your credit report, which you can view for free at <a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.annualcreditreport.com/">annualcreditreport</a> &#8211; it&#8217;s a site run by the Federal Trade Commission to allow people to view their credit report annually for no cost.  Although you don&#8217;t get to see your actual credit score, you will be able to verify if there are any incorrect reports on your credit history and see what positive reports are there.</p>
<p>You can also use a number of credit score estimators, like the one at <a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.myfico.com/">MyFICO</a>, to use the information on your report to get a rough estimate of your credit score.  From what I&#8217;ve seen, such estimates are usually accurate to within ten points or so.</p>
<p>As for improving your credit, you&#8217;re right in that making small purchases and paying them off is the best way to build credit because it demonstrates a positive payment history.  I would suggest that you use the card to handle some routine purchase, like gas or groceries, then pay the bill in full as soon as it arrives.</p>
<p><strong><span><a name="21118"></a>Q2: How to make money blogging?</span><br />
I have been wanting to find out exactly HOW to accumulate a few dollars of income through click-ads. You had mentioned in your Simple Dollar Rule #11 that we should all try to generate a few dollars from our blog. I know that without an appropriate amount of traffic, one may not generate enough each month to fill a pocket. But that&#8217;s not really my concern right now. I just want to know the &#8216;how-to&#8221; so I may feel more motivated about my (not-so-skillful) writings. You see, I love to write and I love to snap (photos). My dream is to one day quit my corporate cell, I mean, cube, and to be able to hold down a lower-paying job closer to home so that I can finally spend more time to write, photograph and jog, my three biggest passions.</strong><br />
- Rachel</p>
<p>Blogging is certainly one way to earn some pocket money, but there are many ways to do that.  Earning money from a blog is very interesting because at first, you don&#8217;t earn much of anything at all, which weeds out people who won&#8217;t stick with it.</p>
<p>You earn money in the long run by having an archive of good posts that others have linked to.  As a result, these older posts show up in Google searches, bringing people to your site.  The more good older posts you have, the more people you&#8217;ll bring to your site without any additional effort.</p>
<p>What you need to do is to ask yourself if you&#8217;re writing anything anyone would care about.  Can you envision a reasonable scenario where someone would Google a term, find your page, and be pleased with what they find, enough to stick around and read more?  If you&#8217;re not writing that kind of stuff &#8211; either useful or entertaining or, ideally, both &#8211; then you&#8217;re going to have a very hard time succeeding at blogging.</p>
<p>Once you&#8217;ve done this, though, then earning money is fairly easy &#8211; just put some ads on the site and be patient.</p>
<p>The key is content.  If it&#8217;s good stuff, all you have to do is get the word out a little bit (join some blog carnivals associated with your topic, for one) and then put some ads on your site.  Then wait (and keep making good content, of course).</p>
<p><strong><span><a name="31118"></a>Q3: Favorite podcasts</span><br />
As a fellow avid podcast listener, I&#8217;m always interested to hear what podcasts people regularly listen to. What are your favorites?</strong><br />
- Matt</p>
<p>Aside from a few NPR shows that I listen to in podcast form because it&#8217;s more convenient (<em>Planet Money</em>, <em>Fresh Air</em>, <em>Wait Wait, Don&#8217;t Tell Me</em>, etc.), I listen to these podcasts regularly.</p>
<p><em><a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.radiolab.org/">Radiolab</a></em>, which is a science podcast that&#8217;s probably one of the best things on the internet<br />
<em><a rel="nofollow" href="http://sports.espn.go.com/espnradio/podcast/archive?id=2406595">Pardon the Interruption</a></em>, a sports podcast that keeps me at least up to date on the &#8220;watercooler&#8221; talk in the sports world<br />
<em><a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thisamericanlife.org/">This American Life</a></em>, a collection of audio essays on a seemingly infinite array of topics<br />
<em><a rel="nofollow" href="http://sports.espn.go.com/espnradio/podcast/archive?id=2864045">The B.S. Report</a></em>, a podcast ostensibly about sports but tends to branch out into all sorts of topics<br />
<em><a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thedicetower.com/thedicetower/index.php">The Dice Tower</a></em>, which focuses on board and card games<br />
<em><a rel="nofollow" href="http://grammar.quickanddirtytips.com/">Grammar Girl</a></em>, which is a very short entertaining podcast on grammar issues</p>
<p>There are a <em>lot</em> of great podcasts up there.  This batch is pretty much all I can keep up with during a given week, since I usually listen to them in the background and play them twice or three times each so I can absorb more of them as I&#8217;m working.</p>
<p><strong><span><a name="41118"></a>Q4: Television compromise</span><br />
My wife and I have strongly ...</p>
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		<title>Reader Mailbag: Emotional Control</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Sep 2010 19:20:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Robert Wilkinson</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[What&#8217;s inside?  Here are the questions answered in today&#8217;s reader mailbag, boiled down to five word summaries.  Click on the number to jump straight down to the question.
1. Costs of going to seminary
2. Is vehicle trade worth it?
3. Are we doing okay?
4. Roth IRA versus Roth 401(k)
5. Dealing with an overzealous client
6. Best &#8220;safe&#8221; option for money
7. Cash flow in big city
8. Wedding versus emergency fund
9. Habits for handling life instability
10. Frugal video gaming habits
One of the biggest challenges of parenting &#8211; at least for me &#8211; is teaching&#8230; <a href="http://www.walkwithmoney.com/reader-mailbag-emotional-control/" class="read_more">Read the whole article...</a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>What&#8217;s inside?</strong>  Here are the questions answered in today&#8217;s reader mailbag, boiled down to five word summaries.  Click on the number to jump straight down to the question.<br />
<a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thesimpledollar.com#1916">1.</a> Costs of going to seminary<br />
<a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thesimpledollar.com#2916">2.</a> Is vehicle trade worth it?<br />
<a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thesimpledollar.com#3916">3.</a> Are we doing okay?<br />
<a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thesimpledollar.com#4916">4.</a> Roth IRA versus Roth 401(k)<br />
<a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thesimpledollar.com#5916">5.</a> Dealing with an overzealous client<br />
<a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thesimpledollar.com#6916">6.</a> Best &#8220;safe&#8221; option for money<br />
<a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thesimpledollar.com#7916">7.</a> Cash flow in big city<br />
<a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thesimpledollar.com#8916">8.</a> Wedding versus emergency fund<br />
<a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thesimpledollar.com#9916">9.</a> Habits for handling life instability<br />
<a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thesimpledollar.com#10916">10.</a> Frugal video gaming habits</p>
<p>One of the biggest challenges of parenting &#8211; at least for me &#8211; is teaching our children how to control their emotions.  As adults, most of us are pretty good at controlling our waves of emotions &#8211; they might be really powerful inside of us, but we&#8217;ve trained ourselves to not let those emotions spill out.</p>
<p>Children &#8211; particularly young ones &#8211; haven&#8217;t learned that control yet, and sometimes (often when you least want it), that emotion spills out of them.</p>
<p>Our solution, thus far, has been to take them out of any social situations that they might be interfering with and placing them in a fairly isolated spot to get their emotions under control to the point where communication is fruitful, followed by a chat about handling our emotions and a minor punishment (usually removal of some minor thing they like in their daily routine).</p>
<p>Still, it&#8217;s no fun when such an emotional spill happens in public, requiring a parent to simply leave.</p>
<p><strong><a name="1916"></a>In pursuit of what I feel I&#8217;m called to do I’m planning to quit my job and attend seminary next fall.  I’ll bring my family with me (I’m 29 and my wife is 27 and we have a three month old daughter).  In the next year there are a ton of large and small decisions to be made.  One of the biggest decisions will be what to do with our house.  Here are some specifics, our house appraised about a year ago for $76,500 and I’m six years into a 30 year fixed loan @ 5.6% with a balance of $35,000.  I believe we could find a nice house to live in for the 3-4 years of seminary for about $90,000.  Keep in mind that in my denomination there is almost always a parsonage provided for the pastor.  We’re going into seminary knowing that it will be a tight time for us financially.  Tuition alone for a Masters of Divinity is close to $50,000 and that doesn’t include all the other associated costs.  We have about $25,000 saved specifically for seminary with the hopes of saving more in the next year.  I will also receive tuition assistance from my denomination and from the military.  Needless to say we’re saving now and trying to be as good with our money as we can.  I have a couple of scenarios regarding our house, although I’m open to other options. </p>
<p>Scenario #1: We rent the house that we live in now for $500-600/month (monthly mortgage is $337) and my dad who lives about a mile away could manage the property for us.  We would then need to find a place to rent while in seminary, I’m guessing that it’ll cost around $700-800/month.  This keeps us from buying and selling while under the gun and possibly gives us a bit of extra income (which will be needed).</p>
<p>Scenario #2: We sell our current house and buy a house close to the seminary.  We could conceivably put down 50% on a new house and then after our seminary days either rent to seminary students or try to sell the house.  The upside is that we could possibly have a lower monthly payment than most places that we would rent since if we put down a large down payment. </p>
<p>So what do you think?  How can we best make our money and our house work for us?</strong><br />
- Chip</p>
<p>Scenario #2 seems like the right choice to me.</p>
<p>Under Scenario #1, you&#8217;re still losing money each month even if you have a renter in the price range you&#8217;re hoping for.  You&#8217;re still paying the mortgage and shelling out $700-$800 a month for rent while only taking in $500-600 more if you have a renter.  That&#8217;s a net loss of $100-$300 a month, which most likely exceeds the equity you&#8217;re building each month in the mortgage.  Overall, I don&#8217;t think this is a winning situation for getting ahead.</p>
<p>I vastly prefer the second scenario, because you&#8217;re probably not drastically altering how much you pay for housing each month, but you&#8217;re also building equity with each house payment and you have a property in the end in a high-value place.</p>
<p><strong><a name="2916"></a>I have a 2003 Toyota 4Runner 120,000 miles &#8211; I could trade in for $7000-$9000.  It is paid off, and in pretty good condition, although it does need a $1500 repair in the next year.  Should I trade in?  I can find 2005 Toyota Camry&#8217;s with 50,000 miles or less (one with only 28,000 miles) for $12,000 or less.  Do I fork over the $3000 (which we have saved)?</p>
<p>The whole reason for this is I would like to increase my mpg, and lessen gas costs.  I am also worried about the 120,000 &#8211; I think my car will only get less valuable, and I do not want to take on a car payment &#8211; so I am right at the point where I could break even.  I travel about 6,000 miles/year, and I am a stay at home mom of a 1 year old boy.</strong><br />
- Megan</p>
<p>This seems like the right move, provided you&#8217;re paying cash for the car.</p>
<p>I used fueleconomy.gov and found that the <a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.fueleconomy.gov/feg/2008car1tablef.jsp?id=20930">2005 Toyota Camry</a> averages 25 miles per gallon, while the <a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.fueleconomy.gov/feg/2008car1tablef.jsp?id=19110">2003 Toyota 4Runner</a> 2WD (I assumed that &#8211; the 4WD is worse) gets an average of 18 miles per gallon.  Driving 6,000 miles per year, with gas at $2.75 a gallon, will save you $257 a year.  </p>
<p>Another thing to consider is whether or not it lowers your insurance costs.  I would contact your insurance company and simly get a quote on a 2005 Camry and see how it compares to your current ride (my guess is they&#8217;ll be somewhat comparable, but it&#8217;s worth checking).  Also, many areas charge different vehicle registration rates for such different types of vehicles.</p>
<p>In the end, if both vehicles meet your needs for reliability and other such requirements, it really comes down to cost of ownership, and I&#8217;m pretty certain that a Camry, with such better gas mileage, will get you the best deal.</p>
<p><strong><a name="3916"></a>My husband and I feel we are on the road to a simple, yet comfortable, life financially. I am 20 and he is 23. Though we currently do not make a ton of money, I&#8217;d like some reassurance we are doing the &#8220;right things&#8221; with what we have earned thus far. We currently have no children and do not plan to for a couple of years. We are both in school on and off and are currently more than half through our degrees. Here are our stats:</p>
<p>His salary: 36400 yrly gross (job security, some flexibility, travel perks make up for the low pay&#8230;sort of)<br />
Mine: 27000 gross<br />
Mortgage: 94,000 at 6% 30yr<br />
Student loan: 1800 total<br />
Car loan (his poor-advised purchase before we got married&#8230;ugh): 215 monthly. (payoff around 5,000 with penalities&#8230; bad purchase for other reasons).<br />
Our current vehicle in use is my car from college, for which nothing is owed.<br />
Credit Card Debt: 1800 total<br />
We had a few other small debts that we just paid off. We are currently living off of his salary and banking mine. </p>
<p>We just started adding an additional 350 to our mortgage principal monthly (out of his pay). According to my calculations, this should help us pay off our mortgage before we are in our mid-thirties. Paying off the credit card debt first seems like it would free up about 120 dollars in cash flow per month. The only real benefits of paying off the vehicle would be to lower insurance on it, since it doesn&#8217;t run, and to have a clean title so we can sell it and minimize our loss.  I suppose the student loan would be last since the interest is low?</p>
<p>With all debt (excluding mortgage) paid off, we would have monthly &#8220;bills&#8221; down to about 1450 per month. This is including our 350 extra toward mortgage. We can easily live off of 300 for gas, groceries, and any extras per month, putting our total budget per month at less than 1800 dollars. We&#8217;ve really worked hard at scaling down our living expenses and minimizing our debt.</p>
<p>The small remainder of his salary per month should be spend where? Is now the time to open up the IRA? Am I correct on the order I should be paying off what&#8217;s left of our debt? I feel like we are doing really great in comparison to whom we know in similar situations, am I wrong? The averages of net worth and such online feel like a hoax, and what I read in blog forums just doesn&#8217;t add up in comparison to average american statistics.</strong><br />
- Ashley</p>
<p>You&#8217;re making the right move in paying off the debts in order of interest rate, from highest to lowest.  That&#8217;s the most efficient way to pay off one&#8217;s debts.</p>
<p>As to whether you should open an IRA or do something else with the remaining money each month, the answer changes depending on whether or not you each already have retirement plans.  As young as you are, if you shoot for 10% of your gross income going into retirement, you&#8217;ll be doing well, and if you already have that much going in due to your workplace, you&#8217;re probably better served for your life by putting that money towards paying down the debts.</p>
<p>You&#8217;re doing very well for a couple at your age.  The simple fact that you&#8217;re able to bank all of your salary means that you&#8217;ll be entering your thirties in a much better financial state than most people your age.  Kudos.</p>
<p><strong><a name="4916"></a>My employer offers both traditional 401(k) and Roth 401(k) options. I&#8217;m 26 and participate in both, putting enough in my regular 401(k) to receive the full company match, while putting some additional post-tax money into the Roth 401(k). Lately, I&#8217;ve been wondering if I would be better served by starting a Roth IRA instead of funding the Roth 401(k). I understand that contributions to a Roth IRA can be withdrawn without penalty &#8211; are there ...</p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Aug 2010 20:20:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Robert Wilkinson</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[What&#8217;s inside?  Here are the questions answered in today&#8217;s reader mailbag, boiled down to five word summaries.  Click on the number to jump straight down to the question.
1. GTD for stay-at-home moms
2. Loaning money to parents
3. Prepaying property taxes
4. Emergency fund or debt repayment
5. Starting a Roth IRA
6. Small business encouragement
7. Thinking ahead for college
8. Out of college, no job
9. Apprehensive about mortgage prepayment
10. CFPA thoughts
As I&#8217;ve mentioned before, my wife and I have strongly considered moving to be closer to various family members.  What keeps us from doing&#8230; <a href="http://www.walkwithmoney.com/reader-mailbag-friends/" class="read_more">Read the whole article...</a>]]></description>
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<a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thesimpledollar.com#1823">1.</a> GTD for stay-at-home moms<br />
<a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thesimpledollar.com#2823">2.</a> Loaning money to parents<br />
<a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thesimpledollar.com#3823">3.</a> Prepaying property taxes<br />
<a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thesimpledollar.com#4823">4.</a> Emergency fund or debt repayment<br />
<a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thesimpledollar.com#5823">5.</a> Starting a Roth IRA<br />
<a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thesimpledollar.com#6823">6.</a> Small business encouragement<br />
<a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thesimpledollar.com#7823">7.</a> Thinking ahead for college<br />
<a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thesimpledollar.com#8823">8.</a> Out of college, no job<br />
<a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thesimpledollar.com#9823">9.</a> Apprehensive about mortgage prepayment<br />
<a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thesimpledollar.com#10823">10.</a> CFPA thoughts</p>
<p>As I&#8217;ve mentioned before, my wife and I have strongly considered moving to be closer to various family members.  What keeps us from doing it?  Friends. We have a very wonderful circle of people here and, frankly, neither one of us wants to leave them behind.  It really is all about the people for us &#8211; we want to move to be near certain people, and we don&#8217;t want to move because we&#8217;d be far from other people.</p>
<p><strong><a name="1823"></a>I enjoyed your GTD review and am trying to implement it in my life. My problem as a stay-at-home mom is how to organize all the repetitive duties that end up taking up so much time that I can&#8217;t even get to look at my next steps action items.<br />
Do you know of other stay-at-home people following GTD and how it works for them?<br />
i.e. Do I have &#8220;clean house&#8221; as a project and then add &#8220;wash dishes&#8221; as a next step after every meal? I&#8217;m thinking it only makes sense to add special projects like cleaning out closets on project lists&#8230;but then I still don&#8217;t know how to organize my day to get things done. It seems that the GTD book is more geared toward office life and not home life.<br />
Any ideas?</strong><br />
- Megan</p>
<p>GTD really works when your life is (a) filled with lots of little things that you need to keep track of, (b) appointments, and (c) longer-term projects that can&#8217;t be finished in one sit-down session.</p>
<p>I can&#8217;t speak for a stay-at-home mom, but my life is loaded with these things, and GTD really helps with them.  The &#8220;lots of little things to keep track of&#8221; is dealt with by writing everything down that comes to mind, putting them all (and any other items I get, like mail) in an inbox, and processing all of it once a day or so.  The &#8220;appointments&#8221; are handled with a calendar.  The &#8220;projects&#8221; are handled by devoting a folder to each one, defining the steps I need to accomplish, and reviewing them regularly so that I&#8217;m always taking the next step on them.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t use it for daily routines, though checklists can be helpful for that.  The exception is if I&#8217;m trying to establish a new one, like practicing the piano or something like that.  </p>
<p>It&#8217;s up to you, really, whether those things will help you &#8211; or help you enough to be worth the time.</p>
<p><strong><a name="2823"></a>Is it unethical to charge my parents interest on a loan? I&#8217;m 22 and have *very* robust finances, while my parents have been both unlucky and made some poor choices (though they&#8217;ve gotten better in the last few years). My dad recently suggested to me that instead of paying his credit card company interest (~20%, he thinks) on his balance (~$4000), I could lend them the money to pay it off in exchange for something like 10%. If it worked out we&#8217;d both be better off. This is money I can afford to lose, and would otherwise be sitting in a money market or bond index fund.</p>
<p>So my question, is it unethical to charge my parents interest, at least more than I&#8217;d earn otherwise? While 10% is much lower than their current payment, it&#8217;s much higher than I&#8217;d earn otherwise. If I&#8217;m willing to lend them the money at a lower rate, am I ethically obliged to? I&#8217;d value your thoughts.</strong><br />
- Mickey</p>
<p>It&#8217;s not unethical to do it.  It&#8217;s just got a strong likelihood of damaging your relationship with your parents.</p>
<p>Think of it this way.  You&#8217;re now going to have to enforce the regular repayments (likely to make them bristle).  If they decide that they don&#8217;t need to repay you regularly, you&#8217;re going to bristle up.  Neither one is going to be good for your relationship, particularly if the condition continues.</p>
<p>Now, imagine if they default.  That&#8217;s going to strain the relationship for a very long time in both directions.</p>
<p>For me, it&#8217;s <em>never</em> worth it to loan money to people I care about.  If I decide someone needs help, I&#8217;ll gift them something.</p>
<p><strong><a name="3823"></a>I&#8217;ve followed your blog closely but have not seen any info about getting a discount if we prepay property taxes. I read there is a 10% discount if we do this. Have you heard about this?</strong><br />
- Meena</p>
<p>I have never seen or heard of a discount for prepaying one&#8217;s property taxes.  That&#8217;s not to say that there isn&#8217;t a municipality or state that offers such a discount.</p>
<p>Regardless, prepaying your property taxes is usually a good idea if you&#8217;re not saving ahead for them.  That way, you&#8217;re not stuck with a huge surprise at the end of the year.</p>
<p>In our area, various payment plans are available without fees being charged on the monthly or quarterly plans.  We use the monthly one and have it automatically deducted from our account.</p>
<p><strong><a name="4823"></a>I currently have a debt of $32k an overdraft charging around about 0.88% on my total balance. I have savings which are hard to get to &#8211; about $27k which i automatically pay $500/mth without fail.</p>
<p>I want to start saving for an emergency fund since between my hubby and myself I am the bread winner. However, I want to get rid of the debt as quickly as possible. Should I close and settle the overdraft using a loan which will charge me 5.5% per year or shud i just settle the debt using my savings?</strong><br />
- Aldie</p>
<p>I would settle most of the debt using your savings, retaining some of it for emergency fund use.  I would probably retain two or three months&#8217; worth of living expenses and put the rest towards reducing the debt.</p>
<p>Of course, once you&#8217;ve done that, you should channel that $500/month temporarily towards the debt until it&#8217;s gone.  Make that <em>in addition to</em> your normal payment, so if you have a payment of $100, pay $600.</p>
<p>Debt freedom is truly great for one big reason: it vastly increases your monthly cash flow, making it possible for you to make a lot of choices you would have never made otherwise.</p>
<p><strong><a name="5823"></a>I recently changed jobs to one with significantly higher pay.  I had a small amount ...</p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Jul 2010 18:20:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Robert Wilkinson</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[What&#8217;s inside?  Here are the questions answered in today&#8217;s reader mailbag, boiled down to five word summaries.  Click on the number to jump straight down to the question.
1. Investing for five year goals
2. Music career crossroads
3. The price of fame
4. First steps with no credit
5. Buying a foreclosed home
6. Which retirement option is best?
7. Pet allergies and family
8. Budgeting and saving
9. Roll over or pocket?
10. Planning for a big change
I love the local flavor of an area that I&#8217;ve never been to before, even in the United States.  The&#8230; <a href="http://www.walkwithmoney.com/reader-mailbag-local-flavor/" class="read_more">Read the whole article...</a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>What&#8217;s inside?</strong>  Here are the questions answered in today&#8217;s reader mailbag, boiled down to five word summaries.  Click on the number to jump straight down to the question.<br />
<a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thesimpledollar.com#1">1.</a> Investing for five year goals<br />
<a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thesimpledollar.com#2">2.</a> Music career crossroads<br />
<a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thesimpledollar.com#3">3.</a> The price of fame<br />
<a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thesimpledollar.com#4">4.</a> First steps with no credit<br />
<a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thesimpledollar.com#5">5.</a> Buying a foreclosed home<br />
<a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thesimpledollar.com#6">6.</a> Which retirement option is best?<br />
<a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thesimpledollar.com#7">7.</a> Pet allergies and family<br />
<a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thesimpledollar.com#8">8.</a> Budgeting and saving<br />
<a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thesimpledollar.com#9">9.</a> Roll over or pocket?<br />
<a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thesimpledollar.com#10">10.</a> Planning for a big change</p>
<p>I love the local flavor of an area that I&#8217;ve never been to before, even in the United States.  The word choices.  The accent.  The local culture.  The food.  The selection at the grocery store.  It&#8217;s all similar, but just a bit different, like a different spice hidden in a familiar dish.</p>
<p><strong><a name="1"></a>My husband and I bought (what we think) is a starter home last year and we think that we&#8217;ll want to sell it in 5-7 years since the public school system isn&#8217;t great in the area (no kids yet, but trying to think ahead).  Anyway, in case we sell the house for around the same price we bought it, I am thinking of ways to make our money work for us in the next 5ish years to help us with a potential larger down payment. I have about $7,000 in a couple of stocks (Johnson &#38; Johnson and Schlumberger) and have about $3,000 in cash that I would like to put in a Vanguard account (and then plan on adding to it monthly).  Since most of this is based on speculation and the future, it is tough to plan.  All I know is I want to make this $9,000-$10,000 work to its full potential in the next 5-7 years and was wondering what your thoughts were on the matter.</strong><br />
- Krissy</p>
<p>Well, you have a choice.  You can either take on a considerable amount of risk and put it into stocks with the potential of a good return (and the potential of returning nothing at all or losing some) or you can put it into something conservative and lock down a small return.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s really the investment choice we&#8217;re all faced with.  There is no &#8220;best&#8221; answer.  It depends on our goals and our needs and our personal risk tolerance.</p>
<p>The longer your timeframe, the better the stock market option is because it gives you more time to make up for the inevitable bad years (like 2008).  Five to seven years is just about the perfect time to go through one bear market and one bull market, and depending on how strong the bull is and how strong the bear is, it could be a net gain or a break even or a net loss.  If you can invest for longer &#8211; fifteen years or longer &#8211; you can ride multiple bears and multiple bulls and, over the history of the stock market, the average bull gains more than the average bear loses.  It&#8217;s just that you can&#8217;t bet on that from individual bears and individual bulls.</p>
<p>If I were you, I&#8217;d probably put the money someplace conservative and focus on squeezing a few more dollars from my standard of living.</p>
<p><strong><a name="2"></a> I am twenty four years old, and I just got married back in October 2009.  I am by trade what you would call a &#8220;Professional Musician&#8221; or &#8220;Hired Gun&#8221; or &#8220;Artist&#8221;.  I&#8217;m a drummer, and song writer.  This is all I have done since I was a kid.  I have had a record deal, had a national release, and some radio success.   The difficulty with being a musician, outside the realm of it being a &#8220;hobby&#8221;, is that work comes then it goes, and success is not solely based in being good or even great, it comes through connections and who-you-know.  Not to mention that living in a town like Nashville where there are a lot of other people doing the exact same things, it makes it even more difficult to get in the door, EVEN if you a extremely talented!  My wife has been unemployed for almost a year, but is furiously looking for a new job.  I have been playing music and working as a server at a restaurant since my wife and I married, but our lack of income is constantly frustrating!  The problem is that if I go get a great paying job or go to school to get a better paying job and then an awesome tour comes up, I have to quit.  My heart and all my passion surround playing music, but it ain&#8217;t paying the bills? We live off a budget, have some emergency savings, and are paying off the remaining 4,000 in debt we have.  Do you have any suggestions?</strong><br />
- Caleb</p>
<p>You&#8217;re asking about a field that I know little about aside from some friends that have dabbled in the alternative music scene.  I asked them what they knew and they gave me a few things to pass along to you.</p>
<p>First, they suggest that you tour, tour, tour.  Play as many live shows as you possibly can, even if they&#8217;re free.  When you&#8217;re there, make sure you have t-shirts and copies of your album and bumper stickers to sell to the people that are there.  Gigs build a reputation and keep income coming in, so get as many as you possibly can.</p>
<p>Second, if you&#8217;re a drummer, seek out at least a singer and a guitarist you can partner with so that you&#8217;re in this together.  You&#8217;re in Nashville &#8211; it shouldn&#8217;t be too hard to find others who are trying to find a break.  Even if you eventually go your separate ways, you&#8217;ll have built a resume.  Tour with these people and split the proceeds from the t-shirts and albums and bumper stickers among you.</p>
<p>Third, make sure you do have some sort of album recorded so that you can sell it at your shows, even if it&#8217;s recorded in your basement using a laptop and a couple cheap microphones.  Learn how to use GarageBand (that was their suggestion for software).  Give away some tracks online.  Do some online promotion, too, like with a Facebook fan page for your band.  </p>
<p>They seem to largely think that if your love is music, then you should be focused on that, especially if you&#8217;ve seen some degree of success with it already.  Just live as lean as possible for now and see where it goes.</p>
<p><strong><a name="3"></a>The thing that bothers me most is when I see famous people complaining about how hard their life is when they have everything they could ever want.</strong><br />
- Kathy</p>
<p>What you&#8217;ve got to keep in mind is that there is no life without problems.  There is virtually no one who does not want something different.  </p>
<p>People who have financial wealth have often traded other kinds of riches to acquire it.  Perhaps they didn&#8217;t build a great relationship with their family.  Maybe they broke off their friendships with a lot of people to get where they&#8217;re at.  Maybe they had to abandon a dream.  Maybe they had to work in a field that made them feel empty inside.  Perhaps their career path led them to fame that they didn&#8217;t really expect which restricts their freedom to just walk down the street when they want to.</p>
<p>No one on this earth has the perfect life.  They may have elements of their life that you wish you had in your life, but I&#8217;m willing to bet there are elements of their life that you would absolutely <em>not</em> want in your own.  I would imagine they feel the same way about you.  </p>
<p>It could be that the richest person in your neighborhood looks at a poor but close-knit family and thinks to himself that he would trade all of his riches for that.  Meanwhile, the close-knit family looks at the rich man&#8217;s big house and the shiny car and thinks to themselves that they would give anything for that.</p>
<p>Everyone has riches in different ways and we all sometimes wish we had more in some areas of our life.</p>
<p><strong><a name="4"></a>I&#8217;m a 27yr old married guy with a 6yr old daughter and another on the way any day now. I&#8217;ve never borrowed any money from anybody in my life &#8211; not a loan, not a credit card, not a pay day cash advance, nothing. I love it this way &#8211; my friends and family have paid thousands upon thousands of dollars over the years in interest payments, while my wife and I have lived relatively debt-free. The problem is, I&#8217;m a credit ghost. I&#8217;ve tried to get some low-limit credit cards or loans to start to raise my credit score, but no one will approve someone my age who has never had a spot of credit in their life. Apparently, being a 27yr old with no credit raises all kinds of flags in banking computer systems due to the high statistical probability of my being a faked identity trying to pull some kind of scam. I even had to bring my ID, Social Security Card, and Birth Certificate to the bank just to be added to my wife&#8217;s 15yr old pre-existing checking account! I want to try and build my credit up a bit because I&#8217;m interested in buying a house around my 30th birthday. Do you have any suggestions about what I can do to get started down that path?</strong><br />
- Brad</p>
<p>The first place I would start ...</p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Jun 2010 16:20:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Robert Wilkinson</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[What&#8217;s inside?  Here are five word summaries of the questions answered inside this mailbag.  Click on the number to skip straight to that question.
1. Co-signing with bad credit father
2. How many people read TSD?
3. Removing stains from cloth diapers
4. Percentage for emergency fund
5. Personal loan for adoption
6. Gloom, doom, and e-funds
7. Difficult job search
8. Frugality, clutter, and hoarding
9. Regular IRA versus Roth IRA
10. Which debt to pay first?
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<p><a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thesimpledollar.com#1">1.</a> Co-signing with bad credit father<br />
<a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thesimpledollar.com#2">2.</a> How many people read TSD?<br />
<a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thesimpledollar.com#3">3.</a> Removing stains from cloth diapers<br />
<a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thesimpledollar.com#4">4.</a> Percentage for emergency fund<br />
<a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thesimpledollar.com#5">5.</a> Personal loan for adoption<br />
<a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thesimpledollar.com#6">6.</a> Gloom, doom, and e-funds<br />
<a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thesimpledollar.com#7">7.</a> Difficult job search<br />
<a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thesimpledollar.com#8">8.</a> Frugality, clutter, and hoarding<br />
<a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thesimpledollar.com#9">9.</a> Regular IRA versus Roth IRA<br />
<a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thesimpledollar.com#10">10.</a> Which debt to pay first?</p>
<p>This weekend, we went to a wedding of an old friend in the middle of Wisconsin.  On the way back, Sarah says, impromptu, that we should stop for the night and visit family.  My work plans involved us going home, of course, so I&#8217;m writing this mailbag on the road between wireless hot spots, sitting in the front seat of a cramped Prius.</p>
<p><strong><a name="1"></a>My Father is a retired teacher who started in real estate about a year before the current economic crash.  He had three houses that he owned and was renting out to tenants.  Once the real estate market crashed, he was unable to make a living in real estate and tried to get back into teaching, but hasn&#8217;t been able to get much more than temp sub positions. </p>
<p>Needless to say, he wasn&#8217;t able to keep his houses.  One has gone into foreclosure already and he&#8217;s trying to negotiate with the banks on the last two, but it&#8217;s looking like he&#8217;s going to loose those as well.  He has a motor home that he will be able to live in temporarily if he does loose his homes, so he wont be homeless.</p>
<p>Recently he asked me if I&#8217;d be wiling to co-sign a new mortgage with him.  He wants to leave his area (southern California) and move to an area where the housing market is better and prices are cheaper (Arizona).  Since his credit is completely obliterated by the foreclosures, he would never be able to buy any time soon.  He&#8217;s looking for a small, cheap house that he can live the rest of his life in.  He would make the downpayment and all mortgage payments, I would simply assume the risk.  I&#8217;d love to help my dad out, but how would having two mortgages affect my credit?   Would co-signing with someone who has lousy credit affect my credit?  Is it even necessary to co-sign, would it be better for me to put the mortgage in my name and treat it like my dad is renting from me?  If, god forbid, he were to pass away, which would it be better to have the house totally in my name, or be a co-owner?  I know you&#8217;re not a real-estate expert, but I&#8217;m sure you&#8217;ve done some research on this, so any advice would be greatly appreciated!</strong><br />
- Matt</p>
<p>If you cosign, the impact on your credit will be relatively low unless your father stops paying the bills.  Then, if you do not, your credit will be in the hurt locker.</p>
<p>If he passes away, the same is true &#8211; if you&#8217;ve signed the mortgage, then it&#8217;s now your mortgage.  Better keep up the payments!  Of course, if you&#8217;re not specified as an owner of the house, the only thing you lose by not paying at that point is your credit.</p>
<p>I am generally extremely hesitant to encourage people to cosign on any loan with family members outside of a parent cosigning a college loan for their children.  So often, such arrangements end in fights and broken relationships.  It&#8217;s just not worth it.</p>
<p><strong><a name="2"></a>I believe you mentioned it in the past, but out of curiosity, about how many people follow your site or subscribe to it?</strong><br />
- Brandon</p>
<p>I have about 82,000 subscribers.  About 28,000 of those get The Simple Dollar by email &#8211; the rest get it by their RSS reader (like <a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.google.com/reader">Google Reader</a>).</p>
<p>The site gets about 700,000 visitors per month, though that varies a fair amount from month to month.</p>
<p>In addition to that, I have a <em>lot</em> of additional readers that are hard to quantify because my site&#8217;s content is syndicated elsewhere.  For example, I get a lot of readers because my site&#8217;s content is syndicated at the Christian Science Monitor, as you can <a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.csmonitor.com/Money/The-Simple-Dollar">see here</a>.  Those numbers are extremely difficult to quantify in any reasonable way.</p>
<p><strong><a name="3"></a>As a fellow laundry soap maker and cloth diaper user, I’m wondering how you deal with the stains in newborn diapers. I’m wondering if there is an easy method that I hadn’t thought of yet.</strong><br />
- Christina</p>
<p>I turned to Sarah, the resident expert on this:</p>
<p>&#8220;It depends on the cloth diaper, but I have the best luck just using a mix of washing soda and Simple Green.  I rarely have any trouble with stains when I use the two of them as a mix.</p>
<p>I use about two teaspoons of Simple Green to 1/4 cup washing soda.  Usually, I put the Simple Green in a spray bottle and spray it about 12-14 times right into the washing machine when it&#8217;s filled with water, then spread the washing soda evenly on the water surface.</p>
<p>I usually don&#8217;t have any stains at all when I&#8217;m done.  If I do, I just repeat the Simple Green and washing soda.&#8221;</p>
<p>So there you have it, from our resident cloth diaper washing expert.</p>
<p><strong><a name="4"></a>I graduated from college last May (i.e. &#8216;09), and am lucky enough to have a job, but I still have considerable student loans and am trying to establish a nice emergency fund. In general, I have pretty good control over my finances, but I have a question I would like your advice on. I just received a bonus at work, and recently had a birthday, so I have a little extra cash than I usually do, and am trying to distribute it effectively. About what percentage should I put towards loans and about what percentage should I put towards my emergency fund? When a person has a little extra cash like this, what percent do you recommend on a little splurge? Although I know it must be done, after getting this money, it can be a little depressing putting it all towards debt retirement and a savings account, as I have done in the past.</strong><br />
- Tim</p>
<p>If you have no emergency fund, it should probably all go towards your emergency fund.  I usually recommend that a person have about two months&#8217; worth of living expenses in their emergency fund if they&#8217;re single.</p>
<p>If you already have that, then I&#8217;d focus more on the debts, starting with the highest interest one.</p>
<p>With splurging, I don&#8217;t think it matters too much as long as you&#8217;ve thought it out and stick to a consistent policy.  My wife and I don&#8217;t splurge, per se, but we do often decide on &#8220;splurges&#8221; together and save towards them and windfalls usually are used to boost that savings to some degree.</p>
<p><strong><a name="5"></a>My husband and I racked up some major credit card debt several years back (about 34k).  We haven&#8217;t used credit cards for nearly 2 years now, and 6 months ago we enrolled in a debt management plan through CCCS to simplify and lower our payments; it&#8217;s been tight, but we&#8217;re doing it and are determined to follow through and not accumulate any more consumer debt.  My husband recently ...</p>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jun 2010 22:20:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Robert Wilkinson</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Those who have followed this blog for a long time know that I don&#8217;t have many personal heroes.  There are a lot of people who have valuable things to say, but there are very few people who have reached such a trusted level with me that I tend to put extra value on the things they say just because that person said them.
One of those few people was John Wooden, who passed away this past week (I mentioned it briefly in my reader mailbag on Monday).  A few years ago, I wrote about how John Wooden had taught me&#8230; <a href="http://www.walkwithmoney.com/make-each-day-your-masterpiece/" class="read_more">Read the whole article...</a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://www.walkwithmoney.com/wp-content/plugins/wp-o-matic/cache/92b16_wooden.jpg" style="float: right;margin: 0px 0px 10px 10px" border="0" alt="92b16 wooden Make Each Day Your Masterpiece"  title="Make Each Day Your Masterpiece" />Those who have followed this blog for a long time know that I don&#8217;t have many personal heroes.  There are a lot of people who have valuable things to say, but there are very few people who have reached such a trusted level with me that I tend to put extra value on the things they say just because that person said them.</p>
<p>One of those few people was John Wooden, who passed away this past week (I mentioned it briefly in my reader mailbag on Monday).  A few years ago, I wrote about how <a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thesimpledollar.com/2007/03/26/what-john-wooden-taught-me-about-personal-finance/">John Wooden had taught me a lot about personal finance</a> and over the years, I&#8217;ve read his books and a big pile of interviews he&#8217;d given.</p>
<p>Of all of the things I&#8217;ve taken away from the things he&#8217;s said, one stands out above all others.</p>
<p><strong>Make each day your masterpiece.</strong></p>
<p>In other words, <strong>how would you spend today if it were the one day by which your entire life would be judged?</strong>  </p>
<p>This is something I make a genuine effort to keep in mind every single day of my life.</p>
<p>What would I write if I knew I only had one shot at making a difference in someone&#8217;s life?</p>
<p>How would I spend the next hour with my four year old son if I knew it was the only hour he&#8217;d remember from his childhood when he was an adult?</p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Jun 2010 16:20:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Robert Wilkinson</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[“You need not see what someone is doing
to know if it is his vocation,
you have only to watch his eyes:
a cook mixing a sauce, a surgeon
making a primary incision,
a clerk completing a bill of lading,
wear the same rapt expression,
forgetting themselves in a function.
How beautiful it is,
that eye-on-the-object look.”
- W.H. Auden, Horae Canonicae
I&#8217;m a 30 yr old professional and have saved up about $40k from living within my means sitting in my savings account (I know, I could put it to better use).  I contribute about 10-15% in 401k off&#8230; <a href="http://www.walkwithmoney.com/reader-mailbag-a-bit-of-auden/" class="read_more">Read the whole article...</a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>“You need not see what someone is doing<br />
to know if it is his vocation,<br />
you have only to watch his eyes:<br />
a cook mixing a sauce, a surgeon<br />
making a primary incision,<br />
a clerk completing a bill of lading,<br />
wear the same rapt expression,<br />
forgetting themselves in a function.<br />
How beautiful it is,<br />
that eye-on-the-object look.”<br />
- W.H. Auden, <em><a rel="nofollow" href="http://spintongues.msk.ru/auden9eng.htm">Horae Canonicae</a></em></p>
<p><strong>I&#8217;m a 30 yr old professional and have saved up about $40k from living within my means sitting in my savings account (I know, I could put it to better use).  I contribute about 10-15% in 401k off and on (due to job jumps and 6-12 months working period for eligibility) and have approximately $20k in it.  I recently read &#8220;rich dad poor dad&#8221; and realized it would be a dream come true to no longer have to &#8220;work for money&#8221;.  The book talked about buying &#8220;assets&#8221;, as in things that would generate more money for me, and use the money generated to buy more &#8220;assets&#8221;.  But I don&#8217;t know what to buy.  I&#8217;d like to keep $10k as emergency money and put the rest to generate money for me.  I know I can always buy index funds, but are there any ideas on what I can buy that&#8217;ll immediately start making money for me?</p>
<p>I live in Northern Virginia (DC suburbs), so rental property is out &#8211; real estate is expensive and rent is a lot cheaper than mortgage.</strong><br />
- Paul</p>
<p>First of all, be aware that <em>Rich Dad, Poor Dad</em> paints an <em>insanely</em> optimistic picture of &#8220;making your money work for you.&#8221;  Remember that it is supposed to be a parable &#8211; in his own words, Kiyosaki compared the book to Harry Potter (<a rel="nofollow" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rich_Dad_Poor_Dad#Criticism">in the Feb. 2003 issue of <em>SmartMoney</em></a>).</p>
<p>The idea that you should really take home from the book is that there is a lot of merit in purchasing investments that earn you money without continued work input from you.  Fully managed rentals are one type of this.  Another type is a stock that has paid dividends over a very long history (and thus will likely to continue paying dividends).  Treasury notes are another very stable example of this &#8211; they don&#8217;t pay as well as the others, but they&#8217;re rock solid.</p>
<p>The book essentially proposes that you look for bargains on such assets and keep accumulating them until they produce enough income for you to live on.  </p>
<p>If you have about $10K to start with, one place to start might be stocks that pay a strong dividend, as you don&#8217;t have enough to really buy rental properties yet and you don&#8217;t need the rock-solid stability of treasuries, either.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s important to remember that such &#8220;income-paying investments&#8221; aren&#8217;t necessarily the best investments for the long-term growth of your money.  They&#8217;re simply nice in that they provide a steady income for the owner.</p>
<p><strong>I am very upset.  Our Chevron gas card that we&#8217;ve had since 1987 is now handled by GM Money Bank.  Our joint account now lists my husband as the account holder with me as an authorized user.  I didn&#8217;t notice this until they start calling to verify purchases as part of their fraud prevention program.  If you don&#8217;t respond, they block the card and won&#8217;t talk to me about anything.  I handle the billing and payments on all our accounts, and am incensed that they won&#8217;t talk to me.  They wouldn&#8217;t even let me report fraudulent purchases posted to the account.  Are there no longer joint accounts available?  What happens if he is incapacitated and unable to speak?</strong><br />
- Cindy</p>
<p>Many credit cards have moved to a single cardholder with additional authorized users, mostly in an effort to standardize accounts.  It&#8217;s not really anything to worry about.</p>
<p>If you are the main cardholder&#8217;s spouse, you should have power of attorney over his affairs in the event that he is incapacitated.  This will give you the right to make choices and administrative decisions about his credit card.</p>
<p>I really wouldn&#8217;t worry about it too much.  For now, it doesn&#8217;t change anything about how you two use the cards.  If he did wind up being incapable of managing the card, you would be able to do it for him.</p>
<p><strong>When my wife and I got married, we took &#8216;control&#8217; of a 40K full-service/managed investment account that had been set up for her in the past by her parents. I have been considering turning that into a self-directed account, as the managers of that account just about matched the stock market, and i prefer to just invest in a long term, low fee indexing strategy.</p>
<p>However, we are also underwater on our mortgage by about 15-25K. We have no trouble paying our mortgage and in fact put a couple hundred extra towards principle every month. We are securely employed, although of course you never know what will happen, and ive been considering putting a chunk or most of the 40K towards the principle of our mortgage, to get us above-water and guarantee the roughly 6% return on that money. It also might give us a better shot at refinancing to today&#8217;s really low rates. Also might put 5K towards auto loan at 3.9%, which will cut that loan in half.</p>
<p>We also have 15K in liquid savings and another 45K in IRAs and CDs. Any advice?</strong><br />
- Brian</p>
<p>That seems good on paper, but there are very painful tax complications to doing that.</p>
<p>If you take $20,000 out of a 401(k) before retirement, not only will you have to pay income tax on whatever you pull out, you&#8217;ll also have to pay a 10% early withdrawal fee.  This will quickly eliminate about 30% of your savings (depending on your exact tax bracket, of course).</p>
<p>You&#8217;re better off leaving the money there.  The 10% penalty alone will eat up any potential &#8220;extra&#8221; return you might earn versus leaving it in the 401(k).</p>
<p><strong>My boyfriend and I live together and he makes a lot more than me because I&#8217;m in graduate school. We split bills 50/50 for the house we rent right now, but we&#8217;re moving into a bigger house soon and he will pay more of the rent than me. He also has money saved for when we one day decide to get married and buy a house. Since we&#8217;re not married or even engaged at this point, I feel a bit guilty that he will be paying more of the rent than me. How do unmarried couples (or married couples, for that matter) reconcile differences in income? It really bothers me when wives expect too much from their husbands financially and I never want to turn into that.</strong><br />
- Kate</p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 13 May 2010 15:20:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Robert Wilkinson</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My wife and I recently had a long discussion about how many books we should pack for a trip.  I usually tend to read more when traveling, so I usually pack one book for every two days&#8217; worth of a trip.
So, let&#8217;s say we go on a ten day trip.  That would mean five books.  Does it make sense to tote that many books back and forth?  
Our idea is this.  We each take one book with us and look to borrow stuff when we&#8217;re there.  If that doesn&#8217;t work, we hit the bookstore.  If we finish a book&#8230; <a href="http://www.walkwithmoney.com/reader-mailbag-packing-books-for-trips/" class="read_more">Read the whole article...</a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My wife and I recently had a long discussion about how many books we should pack for a trip.  I usually tend to read <em>more</em> when traveling, so I usually pack one book for every two days&#8217; worth of a trip.</p>
<p>So, let&#8217;s say we go on a ten day trip.  That would mean five books.  Does it make sense to tote that many books back and forth?  </p>
<p>Our idea is this.  We each take one book with us and look to borrow stuff when we&#8217;re there.  If that doesn&#8217;t work, we hit the bookstore.  If we finish a book and aren&#8217;t sure if we&#8217;ll read it again, we do the ol&#8217; &#8220;put a read-me note inside the book and leave it on a park bench&#8221; technique that I often use to pass along books.</p>
<p>That way, we don&#8217;t weight our luggage down with books either coming or going.</p>
<p><em><strong>I am 30 years old and have finally found my dream job at a non-profit after years of working in a very fast-paced, stressful environment. Of course, my dream job pays much, much less than my previous job. And the work is fairly easy for me, based on my previous experience, but is very fulfilling. I also have very reasonable, flexible hours. However, there is also not much room for me to grow beyond my current position at the non-profit. </p>
<p>My husband thinks I am being undervalued and not utilizing my hard-earned skills, and should be maximizing our earning power right now while we are young (we don&#8217;t have kids yet). Especially since, right now, we depend primarily on his income and would be in trouble if he lost his job. Theoretically, he is right, I am very capable of getting a much higher paying job and would probably be able to do so fairly easily, based on my past work experience. But would probably lose the stress-free, fulfilling environment I have grown to love.</p>
<p>What do you think I should do?</em></strong><br />
- Meg</p>
<p>You&#8217;re comparing two sets of values to each other, and that&#8217;s more of a question of what you personally feel is important.  There is no black-and-white answer to a question like this.</p>
<p>How much, dollar-wise, are the positive attributes of your current position worth to you?  For some, they might not be worth much at all &#8211; for others, they&#8217;re worth a lot.  It all depends on your personal makeup.</p>
<p>It sounds like the positive attributes of your job are worth a lot to you.  If they are, they should trump earning more money.  Of course, they should also point you toward having more energy and initiative to take on endeavors in your personal life outside of the workplace.</p>
<p><em><strong>I just looked at the anticipated tax brackets for 2010 from the link on your site.  It&#8217;s anticipated that $34,000 is the cut-off between the 15% and 25% brackets.  So I make $35,000 as a single person.  25% of my salary goes to taxes ($8750) but if I only made $34,000 then I&#8217;d be in the 15% bracket and 15% of my salary ($5100) would be going to taxes.</p>
<p>So, I am very new at all of this stuff but am I interpreting this correctly?  If I made $1000 dollars less each year, I would actually pay $3650 less in taxes? </p>
<p>This can&#8217;t be true&#8230;can it?  I either need to ask for a big raise to make the jump to the 25% bracket &#8220;worth it&#8221; or I need to ask for a small pay cut?  Oh, and I always seem to take the standard deduction.  I work for a non-profit (not sure what other info you need).  How do I decrease my taxable income so that I am in the 15% bracket&#8230;I think that&#8217;s the place I need to be.</strong></em><br />
- Amitra</p>
<p>Amitra is referring to a link to my old pal Jim&#8217;s site that <a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.bargaineering.com/articles/federal-income-irs-tax-brackets.html">lays out the predicted tax brackets for 2010</a>.  This question also shows one of the biggest problems with our tax system &#8211; it&#8217;s just simply very confusing.</p>
<p>OK, let&#8217;s use your example.  Let&#8217;s say you make $35,000 as a single person (after deductions and the like &#8211; $35K is your actual taxable income).  The tax brackets on that link are:</p>
<p>10% Bracket: $0 – $8,375<br />
15% Bracket: $8,375 – $34,000<br />
25% Bracket: $34,000 – $82,400</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s how it works.  Of the $35,000 you&#8217;re paying taxes on this year,<br />
$8,375 of that income is in the 10% tax bracket.<br />
$25,625 of that income is in the 15% tax bracket (the $34,000 maximum of the bracket minus the $8,375 minimum).<br />
$1,000 of that income is in the 25% tax bracket (the remaining income).</p>
<p>Your total tax bill for the year would thus be the total of:<br />
10% of $8,375, which is $837.50<br />
15% of $25,625, which is $3,843.75<br />
25% of $1,000, which is $250<br />
which adds up to $4,931.25.  That&#8217;s what you&#8217;d pay for the year.</p>
<p>Now, if you earned $1,000 less, you&#8217;d owe only $250 less in taxes.  If you earned $1,000 more, you&#8217;d owe $250 more in taxes.</p>
<p>The paranoia about higher tax brackets is just that, paranoia.  You&#8217;re always better off earning more money.</p>
<p><em><strong>Do you ever get a question or request for advice that just makes you say &#8220;What were you THINKING?!&#8221; Do you ever find it hard to give the patient, thought-out answers you do?</strong></em><br />
- Jess</p>
<p>The only questions I get that make me really uncomfortable are the ones where people are basically asking me permission for them to do something unethical or illegal.  I usually just delete those without any kind of response.</p>
<p>People will write to me about how to commit Social Security fraud in various ways.  I get questions about how to avoid paying any and all taxes.  I&#8217;ve had questions about money laundering schemes.  That&#8217;s the kind of stuff I don&#8217;t like &#8211; breaking the law to take more than your fair share or pay less than your fair share.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t really mind when people are struggling with the ins and outs of how a complicated situation works.  For example, in a question below, I address a family trying to deal with a nanny employment and being unsure how to do it.  In these situations, it&#8217;s clear to me that the person wants to do the right thing, but the right thing is made difficult by confusing and draconian laws and regulations.  If a person&#8217;s heart is in the right place, then shaky legal standing doesn&#8217;t make me feel bad.</p>
<p><strong><em>Jointly, my husband and I make a pretty good income.  We have no debt, besides our mortgage, and we spend about 80% of our after-tax income, which does 401K contributions as they are taken out pre-taxes. Our savings equal about $2,000 a month.</p>
<p>We currently max out my husband&#8217;s 401K at $15,000 a year (my company does not offer a 401K program). We have one IRA with about  $10,000 and one Roth IRA with about $21,000  (I don&#8217;t know the difference between Roth and non-Roth, whoops) but do not contribute to them regularly. </p>
<p>However, we still don&#8217;t know how to invest the rest of our savings and I am embarrassed to admit that we have about $20,000 in our checking account (no interest!), which serves partially as our emergency fund/save up for house purchases fund, although we do not need this much in checking. I thought about investing the extra cash in a CD, but the rates seem so low right now. I am not sure if we should add more $$ to our IRAs or invest is somehow else?</p>
<p>Any advice?</em></strong><br />
- Megan</p>
<p>Quickly, a Roth IRA is one that takes in after-tax money and pays out after-tax money in retirement.  A normal IRA does the same with pre-tax money.</p>
<p>At the very least, you should have that extra cash in a savings account earning at least a little interest.  Your own bank can be a start, but you&#8217;ll ...</p>
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		<dc:creator>Robert Wilkinson</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I originally included this email in the reader mailbag this morning, but my answer to Susan&#8217;s email (below) went on so long that I thought it warranted a post of its own.
Yesterday my husband found out he has lost his job.  We don&#8217;t know what to do.
He was making $38,000 a year as an IT specialist.  I make about $36,000 a year as a school teacher.  We have about $10,000 in credit card debt spread across three cards and a $1,300 a month mortgage payment.  We don&#8217;t have anything saved either other than some retirement account money.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I originally included this email in the reader mailbag this morning, but my answer to Susan&#8217;s email (below) went on so long that I thought it warranted a post of its own.</p>
<blockquote><p>Yesterday my husband found out he has lost his job.  We don&#8217;t know what to do.</p>
<p>He was making $38,000 a year as an IT specialist.  I make about $36,000 a year as a school teacher.  We have about $10,000 in credit card debt spread across three cards and a $1,300 a month mortgage payment.  We don&#8217;t have anything saved either other than some retirement account money.</p>
<p>I am so scared we are going to lose our house and lose everything!  What do we do?  Help!</p>
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<p>First and foremost: <strong>don&#8217;t panic</strong>.  No problem is solved well in panic mode.  Bad choices &#8211; choices that you&#8217;ll regret down the road &#8211; are made when you panic.</p>
<p>Take a deep breath.  Here are seven things that you should attempt to do in the coming days.</p>
<p><strong>Be proactive.</strong>  Some people &#8220;turtle up&#8221; in bad situations like this and spend their time avoiding the problem, doing things like playing video games and watching television.  Now is the time <em>not</em> to do these things to excess.</p>
<p>Instead of withdrawing, fill as much of your time as you can with one simple question: <em>what can I do right now to fix our financial situation?</em>  Don&#8217;t turn away from the problem &#8211; grab it by the horns.</p>
<p><strong>Get that second paycheck back as soon as possible.</strong>  Your husband needs to find work quickly and get back in a situation where there is a second stream of income coming into your home.  He should <em>not</em> be picky at this point.  Look for a job in retail where there is often work available for people.  </p>
<p>Once he has that in hand, he can then spend his spare time searching for a job that matches his resume and skill set.  However, it is <em>vital</em> that you not &#8220;hold out&#8221; for a better job right now.  If you do that, you are going to dig yourself into an even worse hole than you&#8217;re in right now.</p>
<p><strong>Cut all unnecessary services.</strong>  Yes, ...</p>
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		<title>Reader Mailbag: Kitchens and Careers</title>
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		<dc:creator>Robert Wilkinson</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Welcome to this week&#8217;s Reader Mailbag!  
A note: I get enough questions to do two or three mailbags a week.  I&#8217;ve considered putting a second Mailbag on Thursdays.  Would this be of interest to you guys?
I recall a few months ago you were thinking seriously about cutting out all or most meat from your diet?  Where did you get to with this?  What was it inspired by? (I seem to remember there was a book that started you thinking about this?)

- Eve
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Welcome to this week&#8217;s Reader Mailbag!  </p>
<p>A note: I get enough questions to do two or three mailbags a week.  I&#8217;ve considered putting a second Mailbag on Thursdays.  Would this be of interest to you guys?</p>
<p><strong><em>I recall a few months ago you were thinking seriously about cutting out all or most meat from your diet?  Where did you get to with this?  What was it inspired by? (I seem to remember there was a book that started you thinking about this?)<br />
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- Eve</p>
<p>In late 2008 to early 2009, I had a bit of a health scare that prompted me to start exercising more and eating better, a trend I followed during most of 2009.  However, during the final crunch for my book, my diet and exercise regimens both went downhill.  Now that the book is done, I&#8217;m putting both back into place.</p>
<p>I found a lot of inspiration from various books when I got started with this regimen.  Two really stood out from the pack: <em><a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thesimpledollar.com/2008/02/15/review-in-defense-of-food/">In Defense of Food</a></em> by Michael Pollan (which <a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thesimpledollar.com/2008/02/15/review-in-defense-of-food/">I actually reviewed here</a> a while back) and <em><a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/0060852569?tag=onejourney-20">Animal, Vegetable, Miracle</a></em> by Barbara Kingsolver.</p>
<p>My current plan is the &#8220;vegetarian until 6 PM&#8221; plan, which bascially means eating vegetarian for breakfast, lunch, and any daytime snacks, then eating a normal dinner.  </p>
<p><strong><em>Your post on Framework and distractions reminded me of an idea I&#8217;d heard of &#8211; a media fast.  To drown out the noise of life and listen to ourselves and what we value rather than media outlets.  No tv, no non fiction books, no music with words, no magazines.  I&#8217;ve been meaning to try it soon for mental health reasons, but it also seems like a very frugal way to spend quality time.  <a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.apartmenttherapy.com/la/how-to/how-to-media-fast-048295">Here is a post on it from another blog</a>.</em></strong><br />
- Amanda</p>
<p>I used to do &#8220;media fasts&#8221; somewhat regularly in college through the mid-2000s.  I would allow myself books, but I wouldn&#8217;t watch any television, listen to the radio, read magazines, or use the internet in any fashion.  I&#8217;ve done many week-long sessions of this, with one session lasting a month.</p>
<p>The biggest thing I noticed is how much the advertising shocks you when you stop doing this.  Ads are everywhere, even in the content we read and listen to.  It&#8217;s amazing how much content is there simply for the purpose of selling you stuff.  Once you see it, it becomes hard to trust a lot of the messgaes out there.</p>
<p>I&#8217;d <em>love</em> to do it again, but at this point it would require a full-on vacation from The Simple Dollar, which is difficult.  With my previous work, I could still easily do my job while doing a media fast, but that&#8217;s much harder when you&#8217;re basically writing for and managing a media property.</p>
<p><strong><em>I am currently employed, but at about 1/2 the amount I was making a year and a half ago.  I was making $72,000 – which helped me pay off all credit card debt, but I got laid off in Aug. 2008.  I was unemployed for about three months and then found another job making around $35,000.  My only debt right now is my mortgage – around $32,000 and my school loans – around $68,000 (and also about $300 in credit card purchases from Christmas, but that will be paid off within the month.)  I have depleted the majority of my savings – mostly through making purchases that I probably could’ve lived without when I first got laid off, but needless to say I have about $500 in savings right now.  That’s some background so here’s where my question begins, I have been making extra payments on my mortgage – my current payment is $300 a month (the joys of small town rural life) and I’ve been paying $65 extra a week – about $260 a month.  I am employed in a state job and it looks like there’s a better than average chance that with the economy I could get laid off again this summer.  Should I stop making the extra payments on my mortgage (currently 7.5%) and put all of that in to savings (at maybe 1.5% interest at ING), or should I keep making the extra payments until I can no longer make them?  I am currently able to put about $200-300 into savings every month.</em></strong><br />
- Sandy</p>
<p>I would stop the extra mortgage payments (for now) and channel the difference into personal savings for a while.  </p>
<p>The big reason for this move is that you need an adequate emergency fund, especially given your current financial situation.  An unexpected event, like a car repair or a lost job, can really derail your fairly stable situation, causing you to have to dip into the debt pool to stay above water, and that can become a downward sprial.</p>
<p>How much should you have?  I&#8217;d suggest having enough in your account to cover three months&#8217; worth of living expenses.  Since you&#8217;re fairly confident that you&#8217;ll be laid off again this summer, I&#8217;d probably keep going beyond three months.  </p>
<p>So, I would just channel the extra mortgage payment purely into your savings for now so that you don&#8217;t have to rely on debt if you&#8217;re laid off.</p>
<p><strong><em>I graduated last December and was blessed to get a job in my new field that began in January. My loans come due in July but I will apply for loan forgiveness with my new job and that will leave me with about $8000 principle. What I am wondering is if it is better for me to just pay it off or make a few months payment because of my credit rating. I use two credit cards monthly but pay my balance in full and I don&#8217;t have a car payment or a mortgage. I pay bills to my family where I live but my name is not on any of the utilities. I used to live in my own place so I did have bills in my name several years ago but I have no plans to change my current living situation. I am asking because of a previous post I read where a couple saw their insurance rate increase and their credit rating decrease because they had their bills paid.</em></strong><br />
- Andy</p>
<p>If you have credit cards and pay the balance in full each month, you&#8217;re doing what you need to do to maintain a good credit rating.  Thus, I wouldn&#8217;t worry about maintaining that rating and instead would focus on getting yourself in the best position.</p>
<p>The advice about maintaining a good credit rating was directed towards people that had absolutely no lines of credit for a period of seven years, at which point their credit report was blank.  If you&#8217;re paying off your credit card in full each month, this doesn&#8217;t apply to you.  Even just leaving the card open would suffice.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t know the exact ins and outs of your situation, but debt freedom is certainly a strong path to take in any situation.  If you have the financial resources to pay the whole debt off, I&#8217;d do so.</p>
<p><strong><em>I&#8217;m a 26-year-old woman working as a part-time music teacher in a local public school district.  I&#8217;m extremely lucky, because my school district is paying for my master&#8217;s degree in full!  I will graduate in May from a private university with my master&#8217;s in school counseling, with zero student loan debt.   However, there is a clause in my teacher&#8217;s contract that states that I must stay in my current school district for one year after finishing my degree, or else I will need to pay back half of my tuition.  In other words, if I leave my job next year to pursue my career in school counseling, I will owe $24,000 (my entire degree costs my district $48,000).  My question is, should I stay one more year to eliminate my debt?  Or should I take on the debt, knowing that I could potentially earn $45,000 in a new job?  Is it ever smart to have debt?  Other information:  I currently have $3,000 left on a car loan, but other than that I have zero debt to my name.  No credit card debt, no other tuition debt, nothing.  I enjoy reading your website, and look forward to your feedback.  Thanks so much!</em></strong>&lt;br ...</p>
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